I don't remember being critical of parents other than you. Like you always said, and like I said above, it hasn't been the message, but the messenger.
I just can not understand why you are not ashamed to say such trash as that, and ashamed because you are really just insulting your self.
And I do know that many people are lower and cheaper then you are - but not very often do they declare their own shortcoming as if it were some badge of honor.
So even after all of that criticism from me - then I must admit that what you say there quoted above is in fact the point of my self sacrifice, in that I destroy the messenger (myself) in order to spread the message.
As such you are telling me that I have succeeded in my self sacrifice (and no, one does not have to die to be a sacrifice).
I know that you have admitted that you screwed up the relationship with your son and that you made mistakes in your marriage to your first wife, but because of my interpretation of your motives, it doesn't sit right with me for you to be one to stand as a representative or spokesman for these issues.
Those parents (or anybody) who are NOT like me and have not screwed up are thereby too self-righteous to be the spokesperson or the representative against the evil Child Support and Custody laws. And I do not make them as self righteous as they just happen to be that way.
My biggest strengths comes from my big blunders.
But putting that aside then I would be happy for anyone else to take my place and be the spokesperson or the representative to speak out and to act against those evil laws.
Since there is nobody else doing as I do then your claim that you do not like me doing this task then the only other option available is to have no one speaking for the families being trashed by those abusive laws. It would be different if you said some other person, or suggest some other representative and yet you do not, as what you want is silence so the evil laws can continue unchallenged.
I say the silence is not your friend nor your ally because within that silence is hidden the coming sudden destruction.
I think I have said in the past at least once that I do think some parts of the way the laws are
enforced need to be changed, like putting someone in jail and then still expecting them to actively make payments when they can't bring in money while in prison, but I think the laws should remain as they are.
A lot of people make contradicting comments like that - in that you know it is wrong but you want to keep it anyway.
That is a type of kiss-up that makes no sense.
You see it as wrong and yet you want to keep the wrong anyway.
I certainly do not respect that.
And I think you idea that the laws make parenting a crime are are almost comical.
You could ask around and see what people say.
Women / mothers will tell just as fast as does the men / fathers.
Ask your own family and let them give their own answer and it always comes out.
Ask about the law and not your own projected demands.
As in are they glad that they did not get tangled up in the marriage laws? are they afraid to get married (or divorced) based on their fear of the law? virtually everyone knows that their parenting (and thereby their life) is directly threatened by the laws.
You may not like the way that I word the reality - but it is real.
As an aside, I remember one of the forum posters who used a totally different persona on each forum she participated in. Even used different genders, races and dialects. I tell you, I would not be totally surprised if you were actually fooling everyone and conducting some kind of psychological experiment for research on a doctoral thesis. Maybe she was too.
Ridiculous.
And you are only active in your work/protest when you are running for an election. You disappear after you lose rather than continuing the fight. You could dedicate your website to current articles supporting your cause, keep your forum active and try other online methods to gain support from people who believe as you do.
I really do have other things to do, and I do not base my life on this one subject. The campaign is based on this one subject but my own life is not.
The ignorant Child Support and Custody laws are no problem for me personally and I am only being a messenger.
Our society would be wise to listen and to act on what I say, but if not then the evil laws will hurt you and them far more then it will affect me, as I say if people will not give the true message its proper regard then to hell with them - and rightly so.
If I win the election then it will be a huge burden onto me, and if I lose then I will continue on with other projects of my own interest.
You could get better known and respected by concentrating your efforts rather than trying to stir up hateful responses to your tangents on the Civil War, Muslims and Black History Month. It seems to me that most forum participants think you are nothing more than an irritating forum troll. You seem to enjoy that. But it only works against you. You talk about your "needle point"/Alexander battle strategy, but then actually use a shot gun approach and poison your message by being a social irritant.
I am very satisfied with my tangents on the Civil War and about Muslims and about black people issues, and I truly resent the hateful and ugly responses which other people post.
The needle point strategy is not perfect and I can only try my part and do the best at it which I can.
In the Bhagavadgita (the Gita / the song) it says that even a perfect white light from the best oil still has some smoke, so even being perfect includes having some imperfections.
If I win the election tomorrow then my needlepoint will strike.
You think you know what you are doing and that you are so smart that you don't need an adviser to help you win an election. People have politely tried to tell you this, but you refuse to accept it.
I am open to consider any advise, and blanket criticism is not advice.
And you (or anyone) has got to make the advice sensible and acceptable which I do not often get.
Most people as like your self keep harping on the petty ideal of "winning" the election, as being so entrapped by the ideals of competition that your suggestions are worthless.
The idea that one has to win or else they are losers is just a petty sinful mentality which is useless to me.
So, are you going to disappear into the woodwork again if you lose tomorrow?
I have no idea.
Maybe some thing else will turn up? or maybe not?